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 Kristin 
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 Posted - 07/17/2001 :  13:54:59   [Permalink]
  
  
                 
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 On the white wedding dress: THE ORIGIN OF THE TRADITIONAL WHITE WEDDING DRESS
  In 1499, Ann of Brittany popularized the white wedding gown. Prior to that time, a woman simply wore her best dress or a new dress without regard to the basic color.
 
  Note: I had believed it was Queen Victoria who had popularized it but it predates her by a fair amount.  Most women were not wealthy enough to cater to the church by wearing a white dress (white does not wear well!)
  Pah, most of the anti-female rhetoric in the Bible is from Paul anyways. (Guess he never got any.)  Don't judge a man by the color of his skin but judge the race of men by their mammaries? Doesn't make sense to me, personally.
  Oh, and I know someone who claims to be able to translate tongues.. she claims a great many other things as well.  I think she was finished on religious arguments with me when I was around 15; I wouldn't take everything she said without question, therefore I be a doubter!  (so was Thomas, you know!)
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 Trish 
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 Posted - 07/18/2001 :  14:44:24   [Permalink]
  
                 
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 Its not so much the dress referring to virginity as it is the veil. A woman who is a virgin is allowed to wear the veil covering her face. This is so the first man to whom she is presented publically is her husband. It is also a statement from the father to the husband of the girls purity. If your not pure then you must not wear the veil covering your face. The mark of a woman who has *known* man.
  I guess if I get married, I'll do it in jeans anyway.
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 Lisa 
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 Posted - 07/18/2001 :  15:18:57   [Permalink]
  
                 
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  I guess if I get married, I'll do it in jeans anyway.
 
   Yep, that's what I did.  Not for any spiritual or social reason, but because I'm cheap.  I've seen friends of mine sink thousands of dollars into a wedding.  If something is going to cost twice the amount of a Jamaica vacation, I think I'll go to Jamaica twice. Ed and I love each other dearly, and I don't think a white dress, tux, and all the flowery trimmings could increase that. I don't know if I'm just missing the romance gene or what, but I've been to quite a few weddings, and all I could think of was "this is silly". Lisa
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