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|  Posted - 07/07/2008 :  11:56:18           
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           	| I just heard on NPR's "Talk of the Nation" an interview with author Bill Bishop on his new book "The Big Sort: Why the Clustering of Like-Minded America Is Tearing Us Apart." It is all about how our self-selecting communities help re-enforce our opinions and even exaggerate them, making us less able to work together. Obviously this issue seems of great importance to skeptics. I suggest checking out the interview. I hope to read the book soon and post a review here. 
 http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=92292747
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| Edited by - marfknox on 07/07/2008  11:56:58
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| Posted - 07/08/2008 :  01:29:37   [Permalink]       
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| It seems to me, and this is only my perception, that it used to be that people who disagreed on political issues could discuss, debate and argue in a friendly way, and it was easy to understand the other persons point of view even if you didn't agree. 
 Now it seems like it always has to be more personal. If you disagree with someone it's not just because you see things differently, but it's because you're evil, and you want bad things to happen. If you don't see things exactly from the other person's point of view it must be because secretly you're a pedophile, Nazi, torturer, or whatever really evil label seems appropriate.
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|  Posted - 07/08/2008 :  07:35:30   [Permalink]       
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| Mycroft said: 
 | It seems to me, and this is only my perception, that it used to be that people who disagreed on political issues could discuss, debate and argue in a friendly way, and it was easy to understand the other persons point of view even if you didn't agree. 
 Now it seems like it always has to be more personal. If you disagree with someone it's not just because you see things differently, but it's because you're evil, and you want bad things to happen. If you don't see things exactly from the other person's point of view it must be because secretly you're a pedophile, Nazi, torturer, or whatever really evil label seems appropriate.
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 Well, at least we agree on one thing.
 
 The level of public discourse has deteriorated to the point where its almost impossible to make fun of it with caricature.
 
 The fault is difficult to assign to any one specific group too.  I think its a combination of tabliod-like news media (nearly all of them have become this, imo), the anti-intellectual movement (mostly right-wing), the apathy of most US citizens (something like half don't bother to vote...), and the movement of batshit bugfucking crazy religious organizations into politics (Falwell, Robertson, Dobson, et al)
 
 
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|  Posted - 07/08/2008 :  11:21:40   [Permalink]       
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| Well said, Mycroft. But it must be remembered that political discussions are never expected to be friendly, merely civil. As long as civility remains in place, friendships will recieve only a little strain. 
 It has been said that politics and religion break up more friendly relationships than anything else. I see little room for argument over that.
 
 
  
 
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| Posted - 07/08/2008 :  13:26:56   [Permalink]             
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| One of my best friends in a Christian fundamentalist and a political conservative to the max. And yes, we debate often. And yet, we also have a lot in common which is what we mostly focus on. I think he is wrong-wrong-wrong with regard to his politics. And he thinks I am too. 
 The good news is that we both like to debate.
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